{"id":2159,"date":"2009-07-02T09:56:20","date_gmt":"2009-07-02T04:26:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/?p=2159"},"modified":"2009-07-02T10:01:12","modified_gmt":"2009-07-02T04:31:12","slug":"radhe-radhe-to-you-dear-pain","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/sweet_motivations\/radhe-radhe-to-you-dear-pain\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Radhe Radhe to you, dear Pain !&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">This is a composition by <span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">H.H. Sri Shachinandan Maharaj<\/span><\/strong> <\/span>whom i <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">love <\/span><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">and revere. His disciple, <strong>Reverend Sadanandi Mataji<\/strong> has blest\u00a0us with this <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">wonderful composition, and we <!--more-->would like to share it with the world at large. <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><strong>From Pain&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\"><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\"><span style=\"font-size: xx-small;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/unitproj.library.ucla.edu\/biomed\/his\/painexhibit\/images\/gaze_o%27pain.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"396\" height=\"471\" \/><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: large;\">&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;..to Prem !!!! \ud83d\ude00 <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: large;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><div><strong><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"mceTemp mceIEcenter\">\n<div id=\"attachment_2161\" style=\"width: 389px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/moonlightChaitanya.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-2161\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2161\" title=\"moonlightChaitanya\" src=\"http:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/07\/moonlightChaitanya.jpg\" alt=\"Gourangasundar\" width=\"379\" height=\"569\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-2161\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Gourangasundar<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><br class=\"spacer_\" \/><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">T<\/span><\/strong><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">eacher Pain<br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\nWhen we carefully study what drives people to spiritual life, we often find a surprising correlation between pain and misery and a rise in spiritual earnestness. Pain pushes us to seek relief beyond the body and mind. Pain and disappointment knock on the closed doors of a superficial life and call us to open ourselves to the Lord in full surrender.<\/p>\n<p>While doing so, pain frequently slices through the illusory veil of mindless sense pleasure. We arrive at the cardinal question: Where is my ultimate shelter?<\/p>\n<p>But pain is often seriously misunderstood. After having recently suffered bouts of physical pain and disappointment in my life and contemplating deeply the wisdom of some Himalayan yogis, I realized something that may surprise my readers. I tried to put my realization into words in the following poem:<\/p>\n<p>Greetings, I Am Pain, Your Guru<\/p>\n<p>Oh, how you curse and condemn me<br \/>\nas if I am your worst enemy.<\/p>\n<p>You will pay any price<br \/>\nto rid yourself of me finally.<br \/>\nNo journey is too far,<br \/>\nno medicine too expensive,<br \/>\nno therapy too abstruse.<\/p>\n<p>You attack me with painkillers,<br \/>\nsedatives,<br \/>\nmindless diversions,<br \/>\nan army of pills.<\/p>\n<p>You call doctor after doctor,<br \/>\nrun to healers and hospitals,<br \/>\napproach sadhus for blessings,<br \/>\nburn incense, pray\u2013<br \/>\nsimply to kill me, your teacher,<br \/>\nwho has come to save<br \/>\nand redirect you.<\/p>\n<p>Allow Me to Introduce Myself<\/p>\n<p>Please wake up.<br \/>\nI am your sincere friend and not a cruel-hearted enemy.<br \/>\nI am a soul-awakener, an eye-opener, a guide, an inspirer.<br \/>\nHow could you have failed<br \/>\nto recognize me?<br \/>\nYou thought I was working against your interests.<br \/>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\"><\/script><\/p>\n<p>But I have entered your life as your friend,<br \/>\nan angelic messenger of God.<br \/>\nI brought you the wisdom and strength<br \/>\nnecessary to change your wrong ways<br \/>\nand to point you to the path divine.<\/p>\n<p>I break you from harmful attachments<br \/>\nstop your progress on the road to destruction.<br \/>\nI whisper in your ears:<br \/>\nCome out of illusion<br \/>\nand seek shelter in God.<br \/>\nI am the other side of pleasure,<br \/>\nwho is my younger brother.<br \/>\nPleasure begins karmic things in this world<br \/>\nbut I construct roads out of this world<br \/>\nwhich lead to the Divine.<br \/>\nI pinch people so that they think about philosophy,<br \/>\nprompt them to spiritual practice,<br \/>\nteach the things wayward souls have forgotten.<\/p>\n<p>By my power I turn sensualists into transcendentalists.<\/p>\n<p>Pitfalls You Could Not See<\/p>\n<p>You failed to observe the laws of right conduct,<br \/>\nof simple living, spiritual thinking.<br \/>\nYou abused body and mind,<br \/>\ndid not eat properly,<br \/>\ncultivated unhealthy thoughts.<br \/>\nYou abandoned exercise,<br \/>\nneglected to breathe clean air,<br \/>\ndrink clean water.<br \/>\nYou thought you were &#8220;living fast.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Your mind became a storage room for negativity,<br \/>\nattachment, fear, anger,<br \/>\nlust, greed, and illusion.<br \/>\nAll these years where were your tears of gratitude<br \/>\nand your sincere service?<br \/>\nPerhaps you were even disrespectful toward the weak,<br \/>\nor the women, the children, the old?<\/p>\n<p>By clever manipulation and lies<br \/>\nyou might have tried to &#8220;benefit\u201d yourself<br \/>\nat the costs of others.<\/p>\n<p>Go inside now<br \/>\nand find what went wrong.<br \/>\nI am here to help you discover<br \/>\nwhat you already know.<\/p>\n<p>Others may have abandoned you in disappointment,<br \/>\nbut I came to enlighten and heal you.<br \/>\nI am your friend, sent by God.<\/p>\n<p>Lessons to Learn<\/p>\n<p>Lead a natural life of divine love<br \/>\nin harmony with God.<br \/>\nThink of Him always.<br \/>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/>\nServe Him with your senses.<br \/>\nWorship and prostrate yourself before Him.<br \/>\nConduct your physical, emotional, and social life<br \/>\nin a way that supports your spiritual development.<br \/>\nIf you don\u2019t know how seek competent advice and learn to live.<br \/>\nHave courage to be yourself,<br \/>\na happy, free servant of eternity.<\/p>\n<p>Follow what I came to teach.<br \/>\nWhen you do, surely I will give you peace and leave you.<br \/>\nBe blessed.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Epilogue<br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\nI am aware that some of our pain is &#8220;karmic debt\u201d that we cannot escape so easily. We may have to tolerate it for some time until the debt is paid.<\/p>\n<p>There is, however, hope, a light at the end of the tunnel. By devoted spiritual practices, one of two things can happen:<\/p>\n<p>1. We may develop the required insight and change of habits. At that time our teacher, pain, may be satisfied that we have learned our lessons and say good-bye.<\/p>\n<p>2. We arrive at the spiritual level whence we are much better able to deal with pain and disappointment.<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">A word to the terminally ill:<br \/>\n<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\nMany terminally ill found strength and solace in changing their perspective on life and death. Life they have come to consider the right hand of God, and death His left. Understanding that they are always in one of His hands, they became both peaceful and blissful.<\/p>\n<p>Let me sincerely apologize to all of you who have not found encouragement in what I have written. Perhaps your pain is different or excruciating. Also, at the time, when I came close to death and found myself writhing with pain I don\u2019t know if I could have written this poem in the same lighthearted way.<br \/>\nI feel empathy for each of you, and if I am aware of your situation, please trust that I am including you in my prayers.<\/p>\n<p>I hope in the future I can cover the subject of pain more extensively.<\/p>\n<p>(2\/2009)<\/p>\n<p>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is a composition by H.H. Sri Shachinandan Maharaj whom i love and revere. 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