{"id":2721,"date":"2010-06-12T09:48:12","date_gmt":"2010-06-12T04:48:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/?p=2721"},"modified":"2010-06-12T18:05:38","modified_gmt":"2010-06-12T13:05:38","slug":"loving-krishna-on-his-terms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/devotee-contribution\/loving-krishna-on-his-terms\/","title":{"rendered":"Loving Krishna on His terms………."},"content":{"rendered":"

Radhe Radhe !<\/span><\/p>\n

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Mann Bajaj, my friend, sent me this one. i wish i could love my Beloved Krishna in the same manner. <\/span><\/p>\n

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My wife called, ‘How long will you be with that newspaper? Will you come here & make your darling daughter eat her food?\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n

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I tossed the paper away & rushed to the scene.<\/span><\/p>\n

My only daughter, Sindhu, looked frightened; tears were welling up in her eyes. In front of her was a bowl filled to its brim with curd rice.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sindhu is a nice child, quite intelligent for her age.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I cleared my throat & picked up the bowl. ‘Sindhu darling, why don’t you take a few mouthful of this curd rice? Just for Dad’s sake dear.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sindhu softened a bit & wiped her tears with the back of her hands. ‘Ok, Dad.. I will eat – not just a few mouthfuls, but the whole lot of this.<\/span><\/p>\n

But, you should…’ Sindhu hesitated. ‘Dad, if I eat this entire curd rice, will you give me whatever I ask for?’<\/span><\/p>\n

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‘Promise’. I covered the pink soft hand extended by my daughter with mine, & clinched the deal. Now I became a bit anxious.<\/span><\/p>\n

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‘Sindhu, dear, you shouldn’t insist on getting a computer or any such expensive items. Dad does not have that kind of money right now. Ok?’<\/span><\/p>\n

‘No, Dad. I do not want anything expensive’. Slowly & painfully, she finished eating the whole quantity. I was silently angry with my wife & my mother for forcing my child to eat something that she detested.<\/span><\/p>\n

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After the ordeal was through, Sindhu came to me with her eyes wide with expectation. All our attention was on her..<\/span><\/p>\n

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‘Dad, I want to have my head shaved off, this Sunday!’ was her demand.<\/span><\/p>\n

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‘Atrocious!’ shouted my wife, ‘A girl child having her head shaved off?<\/span><\/p>\n

Impossible!’ ‘Never in our family!’ My mother rasped. ‘She has been watching too much of TV. Our culture is getting totally spoiled with this TV programs!’<\/span><\/p>\n

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‘Sindhu, darling, why don’t you ask for something else? We\u2019ll be sad seeing you with a clean-shaven head.’ ‘Please, Sindhu, why don’t you try to understand our feelings?’ I tried to plead with her..<\/span><\/p>\n

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‘Dad, you saw how difficult it was for me to eat that Curd Rice’. Sindhu was in tears. ‘& you promised to grant me whatever I ask for.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, you are going back on your words. Was it not you who told me the story of King Harishchandra, its moral that we should honor our promises no matter what?’<\/span><\/p>\n

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It was time for me to call the shots. ‘Our promise must be kept.’ ‘Are you out of your mind?’ chorused my mother & wife. ‘No. If we go back on our promises, she will never learn to honour her own. Sindhuja, your wish will be fulfilled.’<\/span><\/p>\n

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With her head clean-shaven, Sindhu had a round-face & her eyes looked big & beautiful.<\/span><\/p>\n

On Monday morning, I dropped her at her school. It was a sight to watch my hairless Sindhu walking towards her classroom. She turned around & waved.<\/span><\/p>\n

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I waved back with a smile. Just then, a boy alighted from a car & shouted, ‘Sindhuja, please wait for me!’<\/span><\/p>\n

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What struck me was the hairless head of that boy. ‘May be, that is the in-stuff’, I thought.<\/span><\/p>\n

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‘Sir, your daughter Sindhuja is great indeed!’ Without introducing herself, a lady got out of the car, & continued, ‘that boy who is walking along with your daughter is my son Harish. He is suffering from… leukemia’.<\/span><\/p>\n

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She paused to muffle her sobs. ‘Harish could not attend the school for the whole of the last month. He lost all his hair due to the side effects of the chemotherapy. He refused to come back to school fearing the unintentional but cruel teasing of the schoolmates. Sindhuja visited him last week & promised him that she will take care of the teasing issue.<\/span><\/p>\n

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But, I never imagined she would sacrifice her lovely hair for the sake of my son!<\/span><\/p>\n

Sir, you & your wife are blessed to have such a noble soul as your daughter.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n

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I stood transfixed & then, I wept. ‘My little Angel, you are teaching me how selfless real love is!’<\/span><\/p>\n

\u201cThe happiest people are not those who live on their own terms\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026but are those who change their terms for the ones whom they love\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

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Once again,\u00a0\u00a0i wish i could love my Beloved Krishna in the same manner……..Radhe Radhe !!<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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