{"id":3583,"date":"2011-04-15T12:43:09","date_gmt":"2011-04-15T07:43:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/?p=3583"},"modified":"2011-04-15T12:43:09","modified_gmt":"2011-04-15T07:43:09","slug":"qualifications-required-to-become-a-guru","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/devotee-contribution\/qualifications-required-to-become-a-guru\/","title":{"rendered":"Qualifications required to become a Guru"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Radhe Radhe !<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">In these dark age of Kaliyug, we often wonder how to choose a Guru. We are scared\u00a0&#8211; we may be misled, swindled or murdered even. Srila Sanatan Goswami instructs us to live with the Guru for considerable time and scrutinize him. this is commendable indeed. <span style=\"color: #ff0000;\"><strong>Sri Rudra Yamal Tantra<\/strong> <\/span>states that we should seek the following qualifications in a Guru, before we surrender unto him.<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not indulge in gossiping about others<!--more--><\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not be ugly<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">not a leprosy patient<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">his actions should never display cruelty of\u00a0any kind<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">his actvities should be above criticism<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should be healthy,otherwise he will not be able to perform his own sadhana, nor will he bale to impart training to you<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">please do not choose one who is involved in gold-trading<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not be a thief<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should have brilliant intelligence<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not be a dwarf<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should have sadachar<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should be at peace and his mind shoudl not be in tension, for he is stressed out, then what peace will he offer to you?<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">his character should be free of blemish<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not have illicit affairs<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should be extremely well-mannered and polite. His speech should be decorated with utmost decency.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not be a hypocrite (one thing inside his heart, while he speaks another thing)<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not be envious<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not be a food-lover<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should not be miserly<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should always be truthful &#8211; no matter what<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">he should be of\u00a0calm and\u00a0quiet nature<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">should be devoid of inauspicious qulaities (the shastras mention some \u00a0inauspicious qualities, for example white birth-mark on the right side of a male is good, while the same in a female is inauspicious; joint eyebrows are auspicious in both sexes &#8211; we find that Sri Krishna has joint eyebrows, since he posseses all auspicious qulaities.)<\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">Thus we see that a sadguru is extremely rare. I have met devotees who can be classified into two categories in this regard.<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">these devotees think &#8220;something is better than nothing&#8221;. As a result they overlook many points of qulaification. They are in a hurry to choose a Guru, and inevitably make mistake. But even when the problem starts staring at the face, they turn a blind eye. Maybe, they feel they have no option. <\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<li>\n<div style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">another class of devotee, who are extremely rare, opine that we will be born life after life, but choose aperfect Guru, for only such a Guru can take us to Godhead &#8211; the Supreme Personality Sri Krishna. If a Guru is flawed then anyway he cannot take us to the Supreme Abode. I belong to this category. Radhe Radhe !! <\/span><\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Radhe Radhe ! In these dark age of Kaliyug, we often wonder how to choose a Guru. We are scared\u00a0&#8211; we may be misled, swindled or murdered even. Srila Sanatan Goswami instructs us to live with the Guru for considerable &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/devotee-contribution\/qualifications-required-to-become-a-guru\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[251],"tags":[360,368],"class_list":["post-3583","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-devotee-contribution","tag-guru","tag-qualities"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3583","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3583"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3583\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3586,"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3583\/revisions\/3586"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3583"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3583"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kunjeshwari.com\/sweetblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3583"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}